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The Fine Art of Staying In

May 28, 2017


If there's one talent I've always had, it's the ability to stay in - a lot. With the rise of Netflix binge watching, it seems a Friday or Saturday night spent indoors, is even more acceptable than ever. As an introvert, who often prefers a weekend at home to recuperate from busy office working days or social events, this is music to my ears. But there is definitely a skill to be honed in how to stay in on weekends. 

It's all about atmosphere
Creating the right ambience is one of the main things I need for a good night in. If I'm getting my teeth stuck into a long and complex film such as Inception or Vanilla Sky, reading a book or writing, I need a darkened room, some fairy lights and maybe even a few candles. It all enhances the night in experience, creating a warm and cosy feeling. 

Wearing the right attire
Yes, even a night in has a dress code. The key word is comfort, which for me can only mean pajamas, pajamas, pajamas. Whether its Winter and you're wrapped up in fluffy socks and a thermal shirt and trouser set, or Summer wearing just shorts and a vest. In all seasons, absolutely no bras or makeup required; its about minimum effort for maximum effect.

Good company or no company
I am someone who is very happy going about their business alone. I very much enjoy a night to myself, to watch or do whatever I want and not have to open my mouth or think before I speak for a whole 8 hours, in fact I relish in it. But if I do choose to have company, they have to be down for the above two steps, fortunately my bestie and I have lazy nights perfected! I think we get lazier with our appearance every time we hold one, but I wouldn't have it any other way. 

For whatever reason, I have never been the person who loves going out. I actually find it exhausting, mentally more than physically. Perhaps its my introverted traits, my brain whirring at 80mph trying to process everything, that by the end, I need to watch an episode of Netflix to centre myself. My nights in are my time alone to pick myself up and get ready for another week ahead.

Are you someone that loves a night in? 


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